So here it is. After weeks of careful planning and a bit of intrigue, you’ve finally caught the eye of that hot guy you’ve been drooling over for months. He’s starting to talk to you a bit more and giving you that eye contact you’ve been waiting for. Things are going well, but you also know there are others vying for his attention. So what do you do so that he has eyes only for you?

First of all, if you want to take this guy down, it’s important that you know your Strengths and use them to your advantage. If you’re a great cook, learn his favorite dish and make him a favorite kid’s meal that will keep him coming back for more. If you are a talented writer, compose a cute, funny poem that will stop him from laughing. This will make him think of you every time he thinks of that poem. These are just a couple of examples, the key goal is to know what you are good at and use it to your advantage to impress him.

Also remember when you’re trying to make a guy is yours and you need to just get dressed for the part. This does not mean you have to be in miniskirt and stilettos every time you see it. That would be a little weird. Do not forget to take the time to look good every day. Remember that no one wants to flirt with a bum. So take the time to make up a little, even if it’s just blush and lip gloss, and is good to have her hair in a ponytail, provided you are well groomed.

Do you really draw the attention of a guy? He plays with your common interests. Everyone knows that most kids love sports. If you are an avid fan of football, you’ve scored a lot of points with most boys. Also, if you both like the same team, that could put them at the top. No matter what the common interest, be sure to use them in your favor. This not only will you favor your guy’s eyes, but also give them plenty to talk about. Everyone knows that it is much easier to be with someone when you have things in common.

Finally, the main thing to remember when trying to get the boy of your dreams is the one and only thing is be real. Most men can smell a fake woman kilometers away and there is nothing that more discouraged. Be yourself in all situations. This will not only help build a serious relationship, but also know that your true self is who your guy is in love and not a fake version of a woman that you think your guy wants to be. Also, if you pretend to be someone else, your true self always come to light at some point and you could lose your guy if he finds out that you’ve been lying all the time. Save yourself some problems and possible headaches being realistic from the start.

So now that you have the attention of your guys and want to go in and claim it, you have to play smart. The bottom line is that if you got his attention in the first place, then his interest is obviously piqued. Just be yourself but on top of your game. In others be you at your very best. It may take a bit of time and patience, but if he’s smart (which I’m sure he is if you like him), he’ll come to his senses and attack you in no time.