One obstacle many men struggle with is making the girl feel comfortable and at ease in her place. This should not be a problem. If you’ve shared the time properly, build comfort and trust with the girl, but sometimes even if you have, they’ll be a bit hesitant and nervous. There are two important things you can do to make sure a girl is comfortable in your home.
1. Have a good place.
2. Suppose you have been there before.
Now let’s talk about what I mean by “nice.” Money means nothing in terms of sex. Unless you like shallow women, you won’t get any more action simply because you have a mansion. Having a nice place means having a place that follows the triple C. Clean, Comfortable, Cozy. You may have a multi-million dollar mansion that doesn’t follow the three C’s and won’t be ideal for bringing girls in as well.
A gigantic crack house is still a crack house. When your place follows the three Cs, the girls can afford to enter Fantasy mode. They see themselves lounging around your house, totally comfortable in their pajamas or something. They love. Basically, if a girl can’t see herself fitting into your lifestyle, then she’s much less likely to have more than one night with you. This is fine if you’re looking for nothing more than a one-night stand, but if you’re looking for more, you’ll want to help her slip into this fantasy mode. Try to visualize a very sexy girl lounging in a messy room, where she is almost covered in garbage. Pretty tough, huh? Almost NO girl would do that. So keep your house clean. This is rule number 1. Girls will feel that their unclean home reflects an unclean lifestyle in general.
Going out with your hair tousled will make girls deduce that your life (not just your hair) is in shambles. A house does this ten times more. Convenience and convenience are also really helpful in getting girls into fantasy mode. When you have nice furniture (comfort) and soft things like cushions (comfort), girls can visualize themselves relaxing in your place. That’s a great place to put a girl in mind when you’re at a new friend’s house. Remember again that money is not necessary here.
Some pillows or a comfortable sofa can be bought cheaply. Give some thought and time to designing your place and it will make it so much easier to have girls in your life in abundance. The other great way to make a girl feel comfortable in your place is to bring her in with the mindset that she’s been there before. When you bring your good friends, you don’t walk in and say, “Okay, this is the living room. This here is the guest bedroom.” and etc.
You just walk in and flop onto the couch. You should also do this with a new girl. If you need to know where something is, you will ask. Most of the time they will just drop right next to you. A great technique to add to this comfort level is to have a “no shoes in the house” rule. When you walk in, just say “take off your shoes” and take yours off. Not only will she feel more comfortable, but now she knows she will stay for a while. 😉