If you’re reading this, then you want to know how to get it back after a breakup.

There are several ways to do this kind of thing, but truth be told, a lot of them don’t work and none of them will work for all men.

You know him best, so take a look at these tips and pick the ones you think will have the best effect on your guy.

Tip 1: Ask to speak to him, making him think it was his idea.

This may sound difficult, but it really isn’t.

When you talk (many broken-up couples still talk), let him know that you regret how the relationship ended and that maybe one day he’ll tell you why.

Leave it at that and move on to lighter topics of conversation.

He may not do it right away, but eventually he will have that conversation with you and think that since he started it, it really was his idea to do it.

Passing power over to him makes him feel more in control of the situation and therefore much more likely to open up to you.

It sounds weird but it’s true.

Tip 2: Once the breakup has happened, give her a few weeks of no contact.

Time will allow him to have some space and he will begin to miss you.

Once you hear from him again (they always call you sometime after the breakup), you should let him know that you’re okay with the breakup and hope you can still be friends.

Once he knows that you’re okay with not being with him, he’ll want you back almost immediately.

Men always want what they think they can no longer have and your man will be no different.

This is one of the best ways to get him back after a breakup.

Tip 3: Drop little tidbits to remove your memory.

While you don’t want to call him constantly, check in with him from time to time just to keep you on his mind.

For example, you can text him that you just saw a movie and it made you think of him since you first saw it together.

Then add something casual, like asking how she’s been.

Don’t text him again until he responds to the first text, and even then, only text him if he seems to be having a conversation.

If he simply replies “I’m fine,” leave it for now and try again later.

Tip 4: Act like you don’t care.

If you run into him somewhere, pretend that he means nothing to you.

Don’t be rude but be indifferent when you see it.

It will drive him crazy wondering why you’re not pining for him all of a sudden.

These are all great tips on how to get it back after a breakup, so pick one or try them all because one is sure to work!