Most men know nothing about what women really want in oral sex. They think that their reading of the latest and greatest male edited and owned website of 21 year old virgins will give them some good information. It’s not going to happen, this woman gives you the real secrets.

The preparation for the commitment

While I know guys hate foreplay and just want to move on to get in on the action, you have to. It’s not even for the romantic aspect of all this, it’s a physical need. Her lady needs to be properly prepared for her body parts. You jump straight into something and you can be sure that you will end up with a frustrated lover. Just add about 5 minutes of gameplay to get you in a good mood. It helps if she is wearing underwear that you bought her and just took off.

The explicit act

You want to start gently and lick the labia majora with a few well-placed strokes. Then quickly transition to massaging the clitoral nerve endings with your tongue. Do not touch the clitoris with your hands, it completely kills the soft sensations of the mouth. If you ever hear women talk about why they love a woman’s touch it’s because of the wildness of a man’s hands when she makes love. Keep your hands out of the equation.

Move your tongue back and forth, left to right, over the clitoris, in an almost smooth motion. You have to do this for about 15-20 minutes to get her into a state where she can experience multiple pulsating orgasms. Don’t give up early, most average lovers do, and if you want to part with them, then you can’t.

The advice that only a woman can give you

One trick that will drive your lady completely crazy during this whole process is if you insert a finger into the vaginal canal while this is happening. Not putting your finger on the clitoris is the rule, but this is not there, and it works wonders. Don’t even move your finger, just leave it there, the pressure it induces will be enough to send shockwaves through her when you induce climax.