Rushing straight into sex can be mood-altering. One of the biggest complaints from a woman is that she spends very little time on foreplay. Most men complain that foreplay is boring and just something they do before having sex. Sensual contact can satisfy both people.

The good news about many of these touches is that they can happen outside of the bedroom. It could be at dinner or in the kitchen. Every touch could turn up the heat for a hot night later.

1. The touching hug. Touching a woman lightly can really turn her on. You can do this while walking past her or just looking at her during the day. Try to stay away from erotic areas. This will show affection more than lust. This will actually make the sex more intense later on, as your partner will feel like you see her as more than just a sexual object.

2. The Kiss of the Forehead. This is a special kind of playing. These areas are very personal. While someone you don’t know may accidentally touch you on other parts of your body, there are certain areas that are very personal. These areas include the forehead, mouth, and eyes. Make sure to go easy on the areas and you can get rougher later that night.

3. The pressing hug. It’s when it’s a little warmer. A moment of passion that simply surpasses you. While walking with your partner, suddenly grab him and push him against a wall. Then press his body hard against theirs. This is not the time for the soft kiss, but for a passionate kiss.

For a firmer base, be sure to press your matte against the wall. This will allow you to press them more firmly. You should feel that his body reacts very quickly to this kind of passion. Just be careful if you do this in public. This sudden outburst might seem like an attack to some and your moment of lust will be rudely interrupted.

4. The embrace of Milk and Water. This one is hotter than all the others. It’s like dry sex. You get excited without being naked. One way to do this is as a lap dance. Simulates the sexual act without penetration. This will really wake you both up as you imagine what will happen a few minutes later.

This works best if you have cotton or satin material. These materials allow for just enough feel without being too harsh. Try to avoid buttons and zippers, as these will only cause pain when rubbed the wrong way.

The great thing about all of these hugs is that they can be used in or out of the bedroom. They will also add variety to your sex life. She will remember the way you touched her long after she has forgotten your bedroom skills. She practices these sensual touches with your partner and watches as the passion explodes.