If you want to go from idiot to Casanova, then you need to prepare for hard work and a steep learning curve. But if you see it through … boy, is it worth it. Knowing how women will like you is definitely an art, a comprehensive art that could never be adequately covered in a single article. However, I will give an overview of some tips that will make you a better man overnight.

STEP 1 – Understand that you must maximize your life

When I was 21 years old, an ex-girlfriend gave me a big reveal out of courtesy. We were talking about sexual attraction, and she said, “You know, women like a good body in a man as much as a man in a woman.”

That was a real eye-opener. It is not a joke. Before that, I had always taken my appearance for granted. Perhaps it had something to do with media conditioning, never portraying women as individuals who actually pursue sex aggressively (Sex and the City pioneered in that regard).

Yes, gentlemen, women are also attracted to animals. If you want to know rule number one on how women will like you, is to make the most of what you have. Sure, you might not have been born with the George Clooney look, but that doesn’t stop you from maximizing what you have. And I firmly believe that all I made the most of what we had, then we would automatically give off a sexy vibe.

Go to a stylist and get a proper haircut. Read up on fashion and get a select wardrobe of premium clothing instead of buying in droves at the high street discount store. Trade in your watch for a nicer model. Discover the joy of loafers over sneakers. And most importantly, exercise as if your life depended on it. Build a proper body for a Greek god, making sure to look like a champion in a loose fitting T-shirt. You want women to look at you and wish they had claws sunk into that chest.

STEP 2 – The days of the metrosexual are over – hooray for the alpha male!

Face it: women want Real men.

The days of the metrosexuals are gone, thank goodness. Don’t even think about plucking your eyebrows, twenty different forms of skincare, or worst of all, being a serial apologist. I think this is one of the untold secrets of how women will like you.

Metrosexuals are trampled. Metrosexuals are human rugs. The alpha male cannot stand games and is strong enough not to give in when the going gets tough. You have to be as strong mentally as physically. Consider taking a martial art to reflect this.

Just don’t be a pushover. Women don’t want easy prey. Like it or not, the politically incorrect model is back. Women don’t want to be with someone they feel they can dominate. Be prepared to defend your position if you feel you are right when an argument occurs.

And believe me. If he has developed the alpha male aura, women will notice and be attracted to him from a hundred yards away.

STEP 3 – Learn the art of body language

I really believe that this is the most important psychological skill you can learn.

At the end of the day, many seduction attempts fail when the conversation dies between two strangers. Now, many people will say that it is because the two individuals were not compatible. That’s silly – it’s always possible to create a relationship, even with a complete stranger with whom you apparently have nothing in common.

Body language is a great way to break the ice and calm yourself down. If you can tell that the lady is interested (or receptive) to you, then that should give you the little ego trip you need to make sure the conversation persists. Study body language thoroughly, because you have no idea how much it can help you. It is the number one weapon in any master seducer’s arsenal.

Resume

I’ve barely scratched the tip of the iceberg when it comes to understanding how women will like you. But I hope I have given you some thoughts and ideas and you can even start applying it. Maximizing is primarily a physical pursuit; honing your alpha male traits is primarily a mental quest; and learning body language is a combination of the two. If you can even improve one of those areas, you will already be a much better seducer than you were before reading this article.